一.Independence of the strong 独立性很强

　　In the United States, learning is child thing. U.S. students develop a young age, "according interested in learning", "learning is its own thing," the self-learning attitude. Moreover, this independent spirit has already deep into all aspects of child development, if the United States, a child after the age of 18, we must own to make money to feed themselves. Even some very wealthy families, would normally not be spending all kinds of fees for children, but to write them to the home, IOUs, asking them to return after graduation. This spending your parents also have to repay the situation, in case of China, Chinese parents do not know think?

　　在美国，学习是孩子自己的事。美国学生从小就养成了“按照兴趣学习”、“学习是自己的事”的自主学习态度。不仅如此，这种独立精神早已深入到孩子成长的各个方面，如果在美国，一个孩子18岁以后，就要自己去赚钱养活自己。即使是一些非常富裕的家庭，也通常不会替孩子支出各种费用，而是要他们给家里写借条，要求他们毕业后返还。这种花父母的钱还要偿还的情况，如果发生中国，不知道中国的父母会怎么想呢？

二.Filled with a sense of humor 充满幽默感

　　American children from the very hour, they always like to talk to people with big. In the conversation between an adult, with the inherent humor. Even the first meeting with strangers, they know how to join a little humor, so conversation is more interesting, not boring. Sometimes, people can learn to point and social occasions, "joked." This humor comes from the "Don't take yourself seriously." Attitude translated into a very rude word is: do not ourselves seriously. Sometimes think about a child to face accusations of another child, slightly since the tide show their generosity, wisdom, Also blocked his mouth, really lamenting that wisdom and humor, why not?

　　美国孩子从很小时，他们就总是喜欢与大人们交谈。在与大人之间交谈中，带着与生俱来的幽默。即使是第一次与陌生人见面，他们也懂得如何加入一点小幽默，使谈话更有意思，不会枯燥无味。有时候，还能学会来点大人们社交场合的 “自嘲”。这种幽默来自于“Don't take yourself seriously." 的态度，翻成很粗鲁的话就是：不要把自己当回事。有时候想想，一个孩子面对另一个孩子的指责，略带自潮的显示自己的大度，智慧，还能堵住他的嘴巴，真是感叹，这一点智慧与幽默，何乐而不为呢 ？